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Anonymous said: Do you have any tips for a first time strap on users ? I'm a Virgin and my girlfriend wants to use a strap..
Use a strap on you or does she want you to use the strap?
To wear a strap and use a strap takes practice and does not happen over night. Some people I will admit are naturally gifted and will be able to use one off the bat without really thinking about it much. However for the rest of us mere mortals you will have to practice strapping it to your body properly so it doesn’t hurt you to much but it tight enough to allow for better control.
The rhythm needed to use a strap also depends on how often you’ve used one in your case not at all. So my advice would be to go slow and when you get your bearings go for it. However wearing and using a strap can be a full on experience especially if you haven’t used one before and in your case the added factor of you being a virgin also plays a part in it. So take it slow make sure you slowly insert the strap in because unlike human tissue dildo’s can be quiet hard and if you thrust and you miss your gf’s vagina is can cause her pain.
In relation to taking strap well that all depends on how comfortable you are with taking it. Some lesbians I know don’t like penetration and refuse to take it. While others like penetration but only with using fingers and not strap on’s. It’s all about being comfortable with the idea of being penetrated by a strap on. Also if it’s your first time and basically every time afterwards don’t be scared to use as much lubricant as you need. Don’t be sparing with lubricant it’s your friend and if your very tight then it’ll help lessen the friction you might feel. Also if your taking or giving strap for the first time I suggest using the more safer positions like missionary or doggie style. Personally I think doggie style is the best for first timers as your able to see what your doing and have more control on the depth and speed. Either way may sure you use lubricant and that your in a comfortable position. There is nothing worse then trying to use a strap on for the first time and being in a really uncomfortable position.
As your experience gets better and you get better using a strap then by all means be adventurous with your positions but don’t risk it if your only starting out. Also when buying a strap don’t get anything that is to large especially for your first time get something that doesn’t intimidate yourself or your partner. It’s quiet scary your gf bringing home a 8 inch dildo and going welp jump up on it. It’s not exactly the best idea.
So talk to your partner about it, discuss how big you want to get it, what lubricants you want to use, what material you want the dildo to be, if you want to reuse your dildo what type of condoms you want to use. There are lots of different things that need to be considered before jumping up on a strap.
I hope that helped, if you have any other questions then by all means inbox us again and we’ll try to answer it the best way we can.
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